Why are you here?
Not here, reading this article, but here on Earth. Do you ever wonder that? Perhaps not, perhaps you are too engrossed in your daily routine to consider how you fit into this world. Regardless, I believe that each of us is here for a reason.
Besides being engrossed in the monotony of our daily grind, one of the reasons that women don’t stop to consider their place in the world is fear. It is fear that holds us back from so many opportunities, successes and growth. But fear also holds us back from exploration, an exploration of our Authentic Self. That exploration, however, is what leads us to the discovery of our place in the world.
What unique passion(s) do you have to offer, [member_name_first]? Remember Nelson Mandela’s words, “There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” Where are your talents and skills most valued and rewarded? How are your values reflected in your daily living? The answers to these questions provide the groundwork for discovery of your purpose.
Until we are clear on our purpose, our days won’t have the satisfaction, success or joy that we are destined for. If you are ready to begin exploration, start with one of these questions:
1) What one first step can you take to get clearer on purpose? You could start by talking to someone who is clear on their purpose or by reading the writings of someone your Authentic Self admires.
2) Where can you bring more exploration into your own days? Start a class; join a fearless, inspirational support-oriented group or begin a new hobby.
3) How can you block out 30 minutes each day of think time? Schedule 30 minutes in your day to just sit at your desk or in a favorite chair to write down any thoughts, wild ideas or deep longings that you have.
Remember that Marie Curie said, “Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” These steps will get you closer to understanding your purpose.
Is now your time?